→ before i get to the helping part, i'd like to say a couple things.
→ O1. this is a template, and they seem to hate me, so excuse my horridly askew lines.
→ O2. not to sound conceited or self - centered at all, but i really do like to have pretty[ish] sets. i could have just made a text template for these but i decided to make them a little prettier. maybe seeing that i took the time to make a pretty set for them, will help the person on my crushtag a little more. so because i did it this way, the pictures are most likely not gonna have a whole lot [ or anything at all ] to do with the person's comment. i just like to have something pretty for people to look at ♥
→ with that being said, let's get to the help.
so, i like this guy. a lot. we'll call him dan. so, i've liked dan since the beginning of last year. everyone kept telling me that he liked me back, but that he didn't want to make a move. so, i decided to ask him out. i got rejected. then my friend asked him out again, even though i didn't want him to. and i got rejected once again. earlier this year, people told me to ask him out again. so i did, mostly as a joke. and he said no. then he kept telling me he hated me and he wanted nothing to do with me. but the thing is, i'm in love with him. i love him so much. it's just hard to know he hates me. what should i do?
- - anonymous.
January 8, 2013 3:27pm
→ okay, first of all, i am // so // sorry you're going through this. i can't even imagine how bad it must hurt. and i'm just, so sorry.
→ secondly, sweetie, i think it's time to try and move on. i know it's hard, trust me i know. i've been in a situation where i loved the guy more than anything and he couldn't care less about me. so i know it's hard, but you need to do what's best for you. and being hung up on this guy, dan, and having him reject you time and time again, is // not // good for you.
→ you need to find other people to talk to. talk to different guys. make new friendships. i'm not saying to talk to every single guy you see and flirt with him and whatnot, no. // don't // do that. just, talking to other guys, gives you more opportunities to move on. you don't have to flirt with every one of them. just talking, building friendships, relationships, it'll really help you move on.
→ maybe even stop talking to him, i don't know if you do or not, but taking a break might help you. it'll help you to see that you // can // be without him and still be happy. it'll open up a lot more opportunities for you, too.
→ i know it's hard, and i know it hurts, but you need to do everything you can to just move on. i'm sorry to say it, but it doesn't look like it's meant to be with you and him. but that doesn't mean your world has to end. it doesn't mean that you can't be happy. trust me, i thought i wouldn't be happy for the longest time, nothing could make me happy, and i refused to believe happiness would find me.
→ but guess what, that's exactly when it did find me. i have this amazing guy in my life now, someone i never expected to love the way i do. someone i didn't think could love me, cause i'm, well, me.
→ you're not alone, sweetie, that's for damn sure. i don't want you to feel like you're alone in this. if you ever want to come off anon, and message me sometime, do it. i'm here for you. always.
→ just like dumbledore says, ` happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times. if one only remembers, to turn on the light. `
→ be happy, love. move on from him. meet new people. make new friendships. and don't let anything get you down. i want you to be happy, and i know a lot of other people do too. so please, find a way to get over him and be happy, for your sake. ♥
→ i sincerely hope i helped you, and if i didn't, please feel free to tell me.
→ if anyone else needs any kind of help at all, no matter what it's about, please come to me and i'll try to help you the best i can.